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The Ignited Life: Philosophical First Aid for Being Human

The Ignited Life: Philosophical First Aid for Being Human

For people winning on the outside but disappearing on the inside. Essays on purpose, resilience, and what it means to truly matter. By bestselling author and award-winning Passion Struck host John R. Miles.

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Why Your Internal Script Is Not Your Destiny

Rethinking Motivation, Resilience, and the Way We Choose Our Limits

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Winning a Game You No Longer Want to Play

Why the biggest risk to your future isn't change—it's staying exactly who you’ve been.

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The Intimacy Crisis

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The Question Beneath Meaning

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When Pressure Turns Against Us

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The Wordless Tie: Ending Quiet Disorientation

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The Moment You Realize You’re Parenting from Old Ground

The hidden reflexes of post-traumatic parenting, and how repair rebuilds safety and mattering for both of you.

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The Fragmentation Gap

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Reclaiming Your Mind in the Digital Age

Reclaim your attention and find authentic flow as Jay Vidyarthi shares insights from Reclaim Your Mind on technology, mindfulness, and presence

Aug 28, 2025 • John R. Miles

The Fulfillment Gap

Why most jobs drain us—and how to reclaim meaning before it’s too late.

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Why We Feel More Misunderstood Than Ever

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Why You Feel Invisible in a Connected World

The growing mattering gap—and what it reveals about loneliness, belonging, and modern life.

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Why Your Body Rejects the Indoor Life

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Why Success Destroys Our Best Intentions

Eric Ries on financial gravity, the hidden vulnerability of winning, and how to protect what matters before it's too late.

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Why We Wait Too Long to Tell People They Matter

Walter Green on the “Say It Now” movement, the hidden grief of unspoken gratitude, and how to heal relationship regrets before it’s too late.

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Why Thanksgiving Quietly Became America’s Loneliest Day

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Why So Many People Keep Starting Over

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Why We Can't Fix a Broken Life by Changing the Scenery

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What Comes After the Achievement

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The Person You Were Before the Pain Is Not Coming Back

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Do You Own Your Armor, or Does It Own You?

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When You Fail as Yourself

The hidden shame of burnout isn't exhaustion. It's self-erasure.

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The Power of the Pit

How Adversity Strips Away Your Old Identity and Reveals Who You Really Are

May 13 • John R. Miles

Why Your Brain Rejects Emotional Healing

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