The Mattering Mindset in Love (part 2)

How to Attract the Right Love

Love that lasts begins with believing you matter.

So many of us were taught to chase love—to earn it, prove we deserve it, or accept less than we need just to keep it. But over the years, I’ve come to realize that real love doesn’t begin with pursuit. It begins with presence—with the radical belief that you already matter and deserve a relationship that honors that truth.

In this follow-up to last week’s episode on Mattering in Love, I explore what happens when we stop settling and start choosing from self-worth instead of scarcity. This isn’t just about romance—it’s about identity. It’s about rewriting the internal narrative of who you are and what kind of love is possible for you.

Choosing the love you deserve means no longer shrinking to be seen. It means knowing you matter—before anyone else has to tell you.

Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, reevaluating your current relationship, or simply reconnecting with yourself, this episode is a call to reclaim your worth—and to build love on solid ground.

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Listen ad free to explore how mattering transforms not just your relationships—but the way you show up for yourself.