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Thriving Through Inner Awareness: How Inner Awareness Fuels the Art of Connection

Hey friend,

Have you ever looked around at your life—busy, full, maybe even successful—and still felt something essential was missing?

It’s a strange thing, isn’t it? You can be surrounded by people, constantly "on," always responding, producing, achieving… and still feel disconnected. From others. From yourself.

That’s why we’re in the middle of something I believe is deeply needed right now:
The Connected Life—our latest series on the Passion Struck podcast.

We’re exploring what real connection looks like in a world that’s constantly vying for our attention—and often pulling us further apart.

Last week, we started by going inward—looking at how inner awareness is the root of authentic presence.

This past week, I zoomed in on one of the most fascinating cultural case studies of our time: Taylor Swift.

But this isn’t a fan piece. It’s an exploration of emotional leadership. Of how Swift’s rare congruence—her practiced presence, her intentional care—creates deep bonds that go beyond celebrity. We look at how she models what I call The Art of Mattering—and what that means for all of us, no stage required.

And this week, we go even deeper.

Dr. Anna Lembke, the brilliant Stanford psychiatrist and bestselling author of Dopamine Nation, joins me to break down the neuroscience of overconsumption. How the very things we reach for to feel good—are often the ones dulling our joy, blunting our presence, and hijacking our relationships.

We’ll also hear from Bill McGowan, one of the world’s top communication coaches, joins me to talk about the difference between saying the right thing and saying the real thing. How do we build trust and connection with what we speak—and how we speak it?

So here’s my invitation to you:

Don’t just consume this series. Practice it.
Let it challenge you to pay closer attention.
To listen more deeply.
To ask yourself: What kind of connection am I really craving?
And am I showing up for it?

This isn’t self-help fluff. It’s a reclaiming.

Because you don’t need more noise.
You need more meaning.

And it’s never too late to start.

Let’s keep walking this together.

What’s New on the Podcast This Week

This week on Passion Struck, we’re diving deeper into The Connected Life—and exploring how the invisible threads between us shape everything we do, create, and become.

🎧 Tuesday – Episode 625
Dr. Anna Lembke – Dopamine Nation: How Overconsumption Hijacks Connection
What if the phone, the drink, the “just one more episode” is costing us more than we realize? Dr. Lembke reveals how our pleasure-seeking habits impact our relationships—and how to rebalance our brains so we can be fully present again.

🎧 Thursday – Episode 626
Bill McGowan
In this sharp and actionable episode, master communicator Bill McGowan reveals why some messages resonate while others fall flat. Learn how to be clear without being cold, persuasive without posturing—and why the key to connection often lies in saying less, but meaning more.

Coming Soon on the Podcast

Dr. Eli Finkel and Dr. Paul Eastwick, leading relationship scientists, join me to break down the psychology of love in the digital age. How the very habits we develop to protect ourselves—distraction, ego, self-preservation—are often the ones keeping us disconnected, unseen, and out of sync with the people we care about most.

Then I am joined by Dr. Michael Morris, renowned cultural psychologist and Columbia Business School professor, and we unpack how culture silently shapes the way we think, feel, and lead. From decision-making to conflict, bias to belonging—his work reveals how our cultural wiring influences every interaction, often without us even realizing it.

Catch up with Passion Struck

🎧 Tuesday, June 10 – Suzanne Giesemann
The Language of the Soul
This conversation took my breath away. Suzanne shares what it means to live from soul-awareness, trust divine guidance, and remember who we really are beneath the noise. It’s one of the most spiritually grounded episodes we’ve ever done—and I can’t wait for you to hear it.

🎧 Listen here

🎧 Thursday, June 12 – Dr. David Hamilton
Dr. David Hamilton – The Biology of Kindness
David breaks down the science behind how our thoughts and emotions shape our bodies, our relationships, and our ability to heal. If you’ve ever wondered whether compassion truly changes the world—this episode proves it, molecule by molecule.

🎧 Listen here

✨ Weekly Passion Spark

Try this: Notice when you’re seeking relief—and choose connection instead.

Before you reach for the scroll, the snack, the second glass… pause.

Ask: What am I really needing right now?

A moment of stillness? A kind word? A breath of air? A deeper conversation?

Choose the thing that actually nourishes.

Your Challenge This Week

Practice attunement.
This week, when someone speaks to you—really listen.
Not to fix. Not to reply. But to understand.
Tune in with your full presence. Your eyes. Your body. Your breath.

Because one of the most generous things you can give… is your undivided attention.

If this resonates with you—or if you’ve had your own awakening around connection vs. consumption—I’d love to hear it. Just hit reply and let me know what’s shifted for you.

Live boldly. Lead fully. Stay Passion Struck,

– John