Find Your Matter Meter
Because mattering isn’t a luxury—it’s where everything begins.
We live in a world that tells us to earn our worth, to chase applause, and to prove ourselves at every turn. But I’ve learned—sometimes the hard way—that the deepest kind of confidence doesn’t come from external validation. It comes from within.
In this episode, I invite you into one of the most important inner shifts I’ve ever made: learning to trust that I matter—not because of what I do, but because of who I am.
I call it your “matter meter.”
It’s the quiet internal gauge that helps you feel grounded, significant, and aligned. And no, it doesn’t rise with achievements or fall with criticism. It grows stronger every time you choose to believe your presence has impact—whether anyone claps for it or not.
“Your matter meter isn’t powered by performance. It’s powered by presence.”
This isn’t about ego. It’s about essence. And in this episode, we’ll explore how to stop outsourcing your worth and start reclaiming the truth of your significance.
What I’ll Walk You Through:
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